If you are looking for the perfect church, keep looking. No church is perfect because it is made up of imperfect people. The church is messy because it is made up of messy people. Expect drama in the church because it is made up of people with lots of drama. We are all recovering sin addicts. The church is a hospital for wounded people. It is an emergency room for the spiritually broken. The church is always a work in progress.
Too often we forget this truth. We tend to buy in to the “consumer Christian” mentality. Many want to know what the church can do to serve them rather that what they can do to serve the church (read Matthew 20:28). So we search high and low for a church that “has it all.” Dynamic worship. Engaging sermons. The best youth program. Active in the community. A clear mission and vision. Spiritual leadership. An accepting fellowship. Bible-based focus. We yearn for a church that can provide all these things. It seems like that the church I am a part of is always missing something. But the church across town seems to have it “all together.” But after being at the “new church” for a little while you will find that there are things missing there too. The search for a perfect church proves to be a vain pursuit. The church that I am a part of will always be imperfect because I’m in it. Often the biggest problem in the church is my attitude about it.
Usually when we are frustrated with the church we tend to do one of two things:
(1) We complain, gripe, and spread negativity. A sour attitude about the “problems” of the church actually contributes to the problem itself! Let’s stop murmuring like the children of Israel. Let’s grow up and act mature. As Paul wrote to a church that had major problems, “Be watchful, stand firm in the faith, act like men, be strong” (1 Corinthians 16:13).
(2) We leave the church looking for a “better church.” Trust me, you won’t find it. Why not stay, roll up your sleeves, volunteer and be a part of the solution! It is easy to complain about problems, but have you prayed about them? God wants his church to grow and be better. Ask him to make it happen and ask him to use you in the process. Before you abandon the church, talk to the elders about your concerns. If you feel like some of your spiritual needs are not being met, first discuss it with your shepherds. Ask them what you can do to help improve the area of concern.
So what should we do when we feel the church has problems? Be a part of the solution! Anyone can spot what is wrong with the church. There is no shortage of critics in the church. It takes no talent to identify the problems. It takes maturity, strength and work to be a part of the solution.




